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In a lifetime , we always hope for compliment and recognition from others.
How we get there? How often we try to please others, just to get closer the relationship betwen each other ? So you can be the Popular guy/girl around people?
There maybe sometime, we are going out of the line in the sense of pleasing others just to get attention from others . Why we have to create the awareness from others just to make ourselves feel valuable ?
It is like drug addicted ,the recognition from others became the measures of your own success .
Somehow we lost our own self esteem and our self respect in this cruel society. Who else will respect someone who don't even learn to respect themselves?
Solution there is ,
BALANCING THE PLEASING BETWEEN YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
Enrich your mind . It is the strength to create capability and creativity of yours.
Be a Diamond in your life.
When a Diamond is shining bright by itself, eventually discover by others .
Thereby, Respect and Long term Recognition from others will come to you.
Taiwan's well-known movie star Hu Yinmeng, 20-year-old began his debut. A debut she will be popular in the around the world, but she chose to exit the entertainment business when she was in her Career peak.Hu tales about her own transformation. Although she was eye-catching in those years but also suffering from high pressure, she always thought herself out of tune with the entertainment business. Coupled with her marriage with LI AO, she was physically and mentally exhausted, so he chose to shade. Since then, she engaged in writing, translation, through studying to find the real self.
In this case,
She says, "To relax your mind and no longer to please others but to really live out your own inner creativity and potential to achieve the highest value."
There is a saying , "If you are in full blooom , the butterlies are coming to you. "
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